As a parent, you probably find yourself stressed out on a consistent basis. Although raising kids can be among the most rewarding and amazing experiences, it can sometimes feel like the most thankless, infuriating, and exhausting job on earth! But the good news is that busy families don’t necessarily have to be stressed ones. All it takes is a sprinkling of a little balance (and sanity) among the chaos.
Here we take a look at some of the most effective ways of helping parents of young kids to relax, blow off steam, and keep looking forward.
Team Up or Ask For Help
With this type of job, you’re on hand 24 hours a day and you never get a paid vacation. So it’s really inevitable that stress will creep in at some point, and if left unchecked, it can result in serious health problems — from headaches and lowered immunity to heart disease and more. In order to avoid this, try to find relief wherever and whenever you can.
If you’re in a relationship, team up to come up with ways that each of you can get some time to relax and recharge. If you’re a single parent, don’t be afraid to ask for help from neighbors, friends, family, parents of your kids’ classmates, etc.
You don’t have to wait for an actual vacation to find some time for yourself. For instance, you could ask someone to look after the kids while you meditate, take a yoga class, or just spend some quiet time reading a book. Alternatively, you could organize regular playdates for your kids so you have more time to yourself.
Sometimes all it takes to improve your mood and help you feel more hopeful is a bit of pampering. It’s easy to neglect your own well-being when all your time is spent trying to make sure that your children feel their best. But, you should never underestimate the significance of spending even a little time (and/or money) on yourself.
Whether it’s getting a new haircut, meeting friends for lunch, or simply rewarding yourself with decadent chocolate (you know, from your secret stash that the kids don’t know about…) Whatever you decide, make sure you take the time to indulge yourself in luxury as the need for a mini reprieve arises.
Do Less and Be Better
For most parents of young kids, this is counterintuitive advice, but the honest truth is that at the day’s end, you simply cannot do it all. As a parent, your expectations of yourself are always too high. You go about your day making unrealistic to-do lists that you couldn’t get through in two lifetimes.
So, if you constantly feel like you ‘just never have enough time’, it’s time to make some hard choices. Prioritize the most important things so you can take the pressure off yourself and improve your overall output at the same time.
Start by picking a few things off your weekly list that you can stop doing so you can focus more on what’s really important right now. By doing less now, you will essentially become a much better parent in the long run.